You made it through the Forensic Interview. Now what?
We understand that your visit can be overwhelming, so we have collected some helpful information for you to access anytime. Your entire multi-disciplinary team (listed on My Team card) is here to support you, and your CAC Family Advocate will always be a central point of contact to ensure that your family’s needs are met. Though the CAC is independent of the police, DCF, or the DA’s Office, there is no question that you cannot ask your Family Advocate; if we don’t have the answer, we are happy to help you find it!
Everyone responds differently to traumatic situations.
Your child had a forensic interview because the team was concerned that they may have experienced a traumatic event- a scary, dangerous, and potentially criminal situation such as physical or sexual abuse. The traumatic event could be a one-time incident, or it could be chronic (ongoing over time). Child abuse allegations are unfortunately too common, and these events effect your entire family. View our Facts & Myths Page here.
Your child’s trauma reaction depends on how they perceived the event, and their healing similarly depends on the support they receive afterward. Below are some things to look out for that may mean your child is struggling with what happened. These are normal reactions, but your child may need some additional support both from you and from therapeutic services.
What You Can Do
- Take care of yourself! Your support is one of the most important factors for your child’s healing, and you can’t support your child without also supporting yourself. Common Reactions of Parents
- Return to a normal routine, as much as possible. Your child benefits from structure and routine, and providing that will help them feel safe and supported.
- Be patient with your child. They may need more (or less) of your time and attention than normal, or may display difficult behaviors or emotions. Allow space for them to feel and express themselves.
- Give your child choices and control where appropriate (ex: new bedroom décor).
- Lean on your natural and professional supports, including family and friends, counselors, school staff, and spiritual advisors.
- Avoid questioning your child. Listen to them if they want to talk about what happened and reassure them that they are safe, but do not ask any questions.
If You're Wondering about the Court Case
Keep in mind that the criminal investigation and any court process that results can be very lengthy. Though the CAC is independent of police or the DA’s Office, your Family Advocate will be keeping in touch with your team and can help make sure that your questions are answered along the way. If your child’s case is charged, you will receive a Victim/Witness Advocate from the DA’s Office, but your CAC Family Advocate will always be available to you.
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